What Are the Best Housing Options for Older People?
Knowing the housing options that are available to older people can go a long way towards improving their quality of life.
However, decisions about the best places for the elderly to live can be difficult because they have to realistically consider the desires, health, financial and social needs of each individual.
What this means is that it is important to understand that people's needs and desires change as they age so it's important to understand when making plans that what may seem to be a good choice now might not work well in the future.
For example, finances can improve or be damaged, serious illnesses can strike, spouses can divorce or even die and children may distance themselves from their parents due to disagreements or differences in value systems.
These days people are living longer so any of these problems can create huge impacts on how and where they spend their final years.
For this reason, older people need to find housing that can provide them with safety, comfort and financial security.
This s why it's always a good idea to research options far in advance of old age.
Senior Housing Needs Vary Significantly
Each individual has different needs in old age.
- The lucky ones remain relatively healthy and active, while others become burdened with painful and disabling illnesses.
- Some have more financial stability than others.
- Others have stronger support systems than those who relationships have failed.
The things that lead to these end of life outcomes are based on the attitudes, behaviors, experiences and good or bad fortune of those who have grown old.
For example, many parents assume that if things go badly for them, their adult children will take them in, but if what once was a good relationship fades over time or if the family becomes totally estranged, the parents are left to fend for themselves. This also occurs when adult children simply don't have the space, time or money to house their elderly parents.
To find the best solution for their old age housing needs, people should never plan on having relatives or friends oversee their care.
Instead they should analyze their situations and make careful plans that will allow them to live independently and provide what they need to be safe and comfortable in living quarters they can afford.
Create a Safe House
No matter the type of housing one chooses, safety should always be a priority.
It won't matter how much money you have or where you end up living if you are not living in a safe house.
For the elderly, a safe house is one that
- does not have stairs,
- has hard floors rather than carpets,
- does not have any throw rugs,
- has grab rails in bathrooms,
- has furniture that sits firmly on the floor,
- is located in a low crime area and
- is located close to medical facilities.
If possible, it should also be located in an area that has mild weather most of the year.
One of the main reasons for having a safe house is to live in a place that makes it more difficult to fall because falling is one of the main causes of death in the elderly.
Doing things such as eliminating stairs, and rugs that cause people to trip and providing grounded furniture for people to grab onto in the event of an accidental fall can go a long way towards avoiding accidental falls.
It also is helpful for older people to wear safe clothing such as low heeled shoes with good support,and pants, blouses, shirts and dresses that slide on and off easily.
People should do everything they can think of to protect themselves in their homes so that they will feel secure.
The Most Popular Option
A good number of people have stated that they would prefer to simply stay in their own homes as they age.
For some, this can work well, if
- their health is good,
- they can afford the high costs involved in home ownership,
- they are able to care for their homes
- they can make their homes handicapped ready and
- their support system is strong.
However, this can be a very bad choice for others who
- are in poor physical or mental health,
- have limited finances,
- don’t have many friends or relatives available to help them and
- don't have the money to make safety alterations to their homes..
The location of the home for this last group is also important. If they live a good distance from doctors and health care facilities, staying put can be a major problem.
Other Housing Options
Those who don't want to grow old in their current homes should look at all of the options that are available to them given their personal circumstances.
The different types of housing include those that provide
- a room within a house where other seniors also live,
- independent housing where people with few physical or mental needs can rent or buy an apartment and live as they please,
- living in a situation where one gets help with daily living needs such as bathing and meal preparation but who is not ill,
- living in a facility that houses dementia patients,
- living in a nursing home that supplies physical oversight as well as daily living care or
- living at home but having helpers come in to take care of those things one can no longer do.
People who are old but healthy can also choose to
- move into the homes of their children,
- downsize to condos or mobile homes or
- live in government subsidized housing
if their financial situation allows them to do so.
Some of these choices work well for people, but can cause older people to lose some of their privacy as well as a certain amount of control over their lives.
This is especially true if they are ill enough to require consistent medical supervision.
Of course there are always exceptions, as in the case of the woman in the above video! Those who have enough money can, for the most part, live anywhere!
The Latest Trends
Choices for senior housing continue to evolve so people are being given more opportunities than ever to have productive, happy lives based on their choices.
Currently there are options available in some areas for younger retirees to live in college dormitories along side of students. Usually they take courses that justify their situations but those who are doing this find it to be stimulating, satisfying and financially efficient.
There are also senior communities springing up where people purchase homes in communities created just for them where assistance is available to them on an as needed basis but they live independently.
Finally, group homes where college students get to live for free in return for providing companionship and help to seniors are also proving to be very popular.
Many of these situations are experimental, but they offer hope to older people that will keep them from feeling isolated and help them to feel more secure.
Luck and Smart Living Are Helpful
While there are many unexpected things that can happen to people on the road to old age, those who are lucky and who live intelligently will be the ones most likely to have the best old age housing options.
It is extremely important for people to realize that where and how they will be able to live in their older years may not always be their first choice.
While nobody has a crystal ball, there are indicators that can point to potential problems for the future such as poor health, financial problems or limited social support.
For this reason, people need to be realistic and take steps to create living quarters for themselves that will keep allow them to remain secure and financially stable for as long as possible.
I have met countless older individuals over the years who spend their days in isolation, have no one to turn to for help and whose bad financial decisions have left them without many of the necessities of daily living.
This is what happens when they assume that nothing will change and that they will always remain healthy.
You should assume nothing. Growing old is a treacherous trip that is full of stumbling blocks, but the more money, health and good relationships you have when you reach your destination, the happier you will be once you arrive!
Have you given any thought to where you might wind up living when you're old?
This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.
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