As a registered nurse and health enthusiast, I look for ways to balance and optimize wellness in our unhealthy and challenging world.
Time for self-care is challenging to come by. In a fast-paced world, it's harder than ever to monitor our health and wellness. With obesity, diabetes, depression, and autoimmune diseases at an all-time high, the time to start paying attention to our body and mind is now.
I know what you're thinking. "Another health and wellness article to tell me how I should eat, exercise, and organize my life." While this is true, I want to make this a fun task, not a chore. I provide a daily checklist and daily choices that are a breeze to follow.
Everyone's busy, and time is minimal. The kids keep you on the move, demanding jobs, and relationships can be erratic. We're on a chaotic path to poor health in the golden years if we don't. In my years as a mother of four, nurse, runner, and queen of late-blooming, I've learned the importance of catering to one's mental and physical well-being.
Our to-do lists get longer while our bucket lists grow shorter. We spend our waking hours overwhelmed, sick, and tired. These are the facts of how most Americans live today.
Americans are overworked, unrested, generally overweight, and eat terribly. When I started traveling abroad back in 2016, my eyes opened to how terrible we treat our bodies compared to other parts of the world. My husband and I spent three weeks in Eastern Europe, touring seven different countries. There are five things we noticed they all had in common:
- Very little obesity
- Movement; both on foot and bicycles
- Less fast food sources, more fresh produce and meats, and smaller portions when dining
- Social climate; gathering to eat and listen to music with friends is commonplace
- Wine, coffee, and still or sparkling waters are drunk over soda with meals.
Based on these observations, I made a list of over 16 easy ways to change your life for the better.
Use a Simple Daily Log to Track Your Daily and Monthly Goals
One way to hold yourself accountable for all of your goals is by tracking your progress. When it comes to mental and emotional wellness, it can be especially helpful to record your thoughts and feelings too.
Here’s a handy log you can print out to track your progress.
1) Drink Coffee or Tea Daily (Without Refined Sugars or Artificial Sweeteners)
It's a no-brainer that starting your day with a sugar bolus sets you up for a mid-morning crash. If you cut out the sugar, your pancreas will thank you. You'll also learn to enjoy the authentic flavor of coffee that's amiss when masked with sugary calories or fake sweeteners. The healthiest way to drink coffee is black, but most folks do not enjoy the bitterness and turn to sugar and sugar-infused creamers. I prefer a splash of half and half, a touch of butter, and sprinkled cinnamon in my morning latte. Ditch the sugar bowl, artificial sweeteners, and those five pumps of your favorite syrup at Starbucks for these healthy and straightforward substitutes instead:
- Butter (grass-fed)
- Almond or Coconut Milk (unsweetened)
- Cinnamon Powder
- Monk Fruit
- Vanilla Powder
- Cocoa Powder
- Raw Honey
- Organic Half & Half
2) Eat Organic Fruits and Vegetables
Organic means: Free of pesticides, antibiotics, hormones, cruelty-free, and humanely raised. My favorite motto is "you are what the animal or plant you just ate, ate." Do you want that stuff inside your body? I hope not!
Eating healthy and organic isn't always easy when traveling or dining out. It's nearly impossible to do anything at 100%, but your best efforts can make all the difference in how you look and feel in your body. Your skin and internal organs will thank you for the strong measures, and so will your wallet with fewer medical bills! You can pack your organic snacks and meals when possible, on road trips, or when flying, and be as selective as you can.
Grow your food when the season permits. Most of us don't have the luxury of land and growing space. You can improvise by building raised bed gardens or using multiple large containers with organic soil. Here's the 4x8 foot raised garden I have. It's easy to assemble (be sure NOT to use pressure-treated lumber due to the toxic chemicals infused into it. Cedar, cypress, or redwood work best for longevity, but expect to replace the boards every five years or so). I bought my organic garden soil in bags from Home Depot. I plant tomatoes, peppers, green beans, lettuce, eggplant, onions, carrots, radishes, celery, and an herb garden. I always have plenty to share and freeze what I can't use right away. I even got a free rain barrel from my city, so watering my garden is always accessible and inexpensive.
3) Eat Organic Dairy and Meat Whenever Possible
Visit farmer's markets. The small farmer works hard to bring you the best and most wholesome produce and meats. Cut out the middle man and buy direct from them whenever possible. Research suggests that organic foods may have higher nutritional value due to the absence of pesticides and fertilizers that allow the plant to produce more vitamins and antioxidants. Some studies have linked pesticides in food to everything from headaches, cancer, and congenital disabilities. Even low-level pesticide exposure can be significantly more toxic for fetuses and children (they have underdeveloped immune systems) and pregnant women.
4) Say No to Sugary, Salty, Processed, and Artificial Snacks
I have one word for this: poison. I can list 100 reasons why sugar is the devil in disguise, but I will spare the lecture and touch on the big ones.
- Sugar affects the body's ability to regulate insulin. It's taxing on the body and can lead to Type 2 Diabetes, which is chronic, life-altering, and even life-threatening.
- Sugar causes fat storage, which leads to obesity, leading to diabetes, and other diseases, not to mention fatigue and depression. According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the recommended maximum daily intake of sugar is six teaspoons/100 calories for women and nine teaspoons/150 calories for men.
- Artificial sweeteners can mimic the action of sugar when metabolized by the body. They contain non-natural ingredients research shows to be harmful to our health.
Names for added sugars on labels include:
- Brown sugar
- Corn sweetener
- Corn syrup
- Fruit juice concentrates
- High-fructose corn syrup
- Malt sugar
- Raw sugar
- Sugar molecules ending in "ose" (dextrose, fructose, glucose, lactose, maltose, sucrose)
The Dangers of too Much Salt
Salt is another demon that contributes to increased blood pressure, thirst, water retention, and bloating. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) recommends more than 2300 mg of sodium intake per day.
Taste your food first before adding salt. Salt is in almost everything, including canned and bottled vegetables and sauces. Be sure to read labels carefully; even if you don't think an item contains salt, go easy on the shaker.
5) Drink Between 7 and 8 Glasses of Water Daily
Water is the number one healthy choice I make every day and have my whole life. I attribute my life-long hefty water consumption to why I have healthy skin, hair, nails, and overall general good health. I don't look my age and have healthy, bright, wrinkle-free skin. I have been an avid water drinker since childhood, to the point I annoy family and friends with my water rants! In addition to the benefits I mentioned, the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) states these reasons why water is essential. Water helps your body:
- Keep your temperature regular.
- Lubricate and cushion joints
- Protect your spinal cord and other sensitive tissues
- Get rid of wastes through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements
Flavored Water Makes Drinking Water Fun!
If you can't stomach drinking 64+ ounces of water throughout the day, try flavoring it with fruits such as lemons, limes, strawberries, or oranges. I make a two-gallon mason-type jar of water every few days and keep it in the refrigerator. There are many fruit-infused water recipes on Pinterest to prevent water from being boring. My faithful 30 oz Yeti tumbler is always full of water and at hand, day and night. I recommend the Yeti for its ability to keep water, with or without ice, cold for over 24 hours.
6) Cook With Only Heart-Healthy Fats and Oils
Not all cooking oils are created equal. Use this guide from the Cleveland Clinic to prepare your favorite recipes. It's quite helpful to print and hang this handy guide inside a cupboard door for easy reference.
7) Prepare Your Lunch For The Next Day
The biggest reason for daily terrible food choices is the lack of preparation and planning. It leads to frequent trips for fast food or unhealthy cafeteria choices. I make something on Sundays that gets my husband and me through the first few workdays. Our favorite healthy, wholesome lunch to pre-make is my 20-ingredient soup that's packed with nutrients and fantastic flavor. I also make extra food when cooking dinner, so we have leftovers to take for lunches.
8) Consider Drinking 5 oz. of Red Wine Several Evenings Per Week
According to the CDC, red wine, in moderation, is heart-healthy. The alcohol, resveratrol, and antioxidants in red wine may help prevent coronary artery disease. The link between coronary artery disease and red wine is not entirely understood. However, part of the benefit may be from antioxidants. Research suggests an increase in high-density lipoproteins (HDL), aka good cholesterol, that protects against bad cholesterol buildup with the consumption of red wine.
I discourage red wine consumption to those with a personal or family history of alcohol abuse, as too much alcohol can have many harmful effects instead of helpful.
9) Exercise at Least 30 Minutes Each Day
The Department of Health and Human Services recommends adults get at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic exercise over a week.
10) Avoid Sitting For More Than 50 Minutes!
Reducing sitting time is essential to decrease your risk of metabolic issues and blood clots. Many folks have sedentary jobs, so set a reminder on your phone to get up and move and stretch every hour or take a stroll around the building.
11) Spend Time Outdoors
Spending time outdoors has numerous benefits to overall health, the first being Vitamin D exposure. There's nothing like the feeling of sunlight hitting your skin, which activates Vitamin D in our bodies. Vitamin D is vital for healthy bones and to fight off cancer, osteoporosis, depression, and heart attacks. Be careful about getting too much of a good thing; wear sunscreen! I also recommend using natural sunscreen like this aloe-based one from Aruba Aloe.
Fresh air is good for the mind as it alleviates stress, symptoms of depression, brain fog, and the staleness of being indoors. Fresh air also makes us more environmentally aware, so bundle up and get outside even if it's cold! A hike or walk in the woods can be a great reminder of how incredible our planet truly is.
12) Take Some Time Out to Treat and Pamper Yourself
Each day, do one thing to take care of your outer layer. Our skin is our largest organ, and most days, we ignore it. Imagine how beautiful and glowing we would look and feel if we paid attention to one part of our skin each day. Skincare doesn't only apply to women. Soft skin and self-indulgence are for everyone!
In addition to the monthly indulgences of haircuts, manicures, facials, or massages, I recommend the following pampering treatments, including some of my favorite, inexpensive products. You needn't spend a ton of money to indulge in daily delights:
- Give yourself a facial weekly to cleanse, exfoliate, and moisturize.
- Exfoliate your entire body in the shower with a sugar or salt scrub (it's also relatively easy to make body scrub).
- Exfoliate and moisturize your feet with a foot mask that peels away dead skin (the reviews don't lie, this product works!).
- Deep condition your hair (you can get 3-4 treatments per packet. This will leave your hair silky and smooth the fly-aways).
- Give yourself a mini self-massage. (I love the Fascia Blaster for my legs and back and the mini one for arms, neck, and feet).
- Take an Epson salt and lavender bath. While not scientifically proven, the use of Epson salts does seem to have many benefits. It's my go-to remedy for sore muscles after a hard workout or post-marathon.
13) Step Away From Your Computer, Phone, and Other Devices For Two Hours
Take a two-hour "digital detox" each day and connect with your family and friends or partake in the other aforementioned activities. Being unplugged is the perfect time to prepare a healthy dinner, interact with your spouse and children, take a walk, a long bath, or exercise. The act of receiving a notification, even if you don't reply to it, is enough to distract you from doing something productive.
A U.S. survey found that over 73% of young adults (under 30) suffer from symptoms of digital eye strain from screen overuse, including dry, irritated eyes, blurred vision, neck and back pain, and headaches.
14) Meditate or Relax Quietly For 15 Minutes
Mediation has an important place in my daily regimen. I cannot stress how much meditation has helped me cope with life's dysfunctions. I love Body Scan Meditation for achieving total relaxation and often find myself able to disconnect and fall asleep faster, especially when hyper-stimulated by a computer screen or watching a movie before bedtime. There are many wonderful body scan meditations on Youtube, and I've embedded two of my favorite videos/practitioners in this article.
15) Keep a Daily Journal
What better way to commit to new habits than by diligently tracking your wellness? Whether it be a digital journal or a handwritten one, writing your thoughts, musings, and daily experiences is therapeutic and validating. It's also a lovely memoir to leave so your children and grandchildren can know and feel closer to you. Now that we've got a method to keep the madness organized, what follows is a list of suggestions for a more leisurely, healthier lifestyle.
Social Media for Journaling and Tracking
I use Facebook as my journal. I don't post every day, but I always try to post useful and relevant statuses. I have been having customized books printed of my Facebook entries in five-year intervals using a company called My Social Book.
16) Get 7 to 8 Hours of Sleep
Sleep is a vital indicator of overall health and well-being. We spend roughly one-third of our lives asleep. The National Sleep Foundation (NSF) completed a two-year study to determine how much sleep people need by age category.
The NSF recommends the following to help you get a full night's sleep, which I also learned when enrolled in a Cognitive Behavioral Program for combatting insomnia:
- Stick to a sleep/wake schedule, even on weekends.
- Practice a relaxing bedtime ritual.
- Exercise daily.
- Evaluate your bedroom to ensure the ideal temperature, sound, and light.
- Sleep on a comfortable mattress and pillows.
- Beware of hidden sleep stealers, like alcohol and caffeine.
- Turn off electronics before bed.
Blue Light Before Bed
In a US study, 95% of adults admitted using screen time in the hour leading up to bed. (Artificial blue light increases alertness and suppresses melatonin by up to 22%, negatively impacting sleep.) That is another reason to unplug from those devices, especially as bedtime approaches.
Bonus: Additional Wellness Goals (Once You Complete all the Others!)
In addition to tending to your diet, exercise, and mental health, here are extra things you can do throughout the month for yourself and others. You can organize and declutter your life and further add to a lifestyle of overall wellness and happiness.
- Take a “free day” to indulge in a few of your favorite foods
- Reach out to a friend or family member and make plans with them
- Do a random act of kindness
- Plan a date night with your partner
- Plan a road trip or a weekend getaway that is within your budget
- Make a monthly budget and debt reduction plan
- Plant a garden
- Purge, toss, and clean one room in your house
- Organize your digital photos
- Make a digital scrapbook of a special event or collection of favorite photos.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and does not substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, and/or dietary advice from a licensed health professional. Drugs, supplements, and natural remedies may have dangerous side effects. If pregnant or nursing, consult with a qualified provider on an individual basis. Seek immediate help if you are experiencing a medical emergency.
© 2019 Debra Roberts
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on March 14, 2020:
That means so much, thank you!!!!!
Mitara N from South Africa on March 07, 2020:
A brilliant read, couldn't agree with you more
A healthy lifestyle is very important
Thank you for sharing
Mohan Babu from Chennai, India on December 03, 2019:
It is a very relevant article in today's world where junk food is common. You strengthened my belief to stay off added sugar and the importance of physical activity.
Kenneth Avery from Hamilton, Alabama on September 19, 2019:
this is one fantastic work. Very useful, in-depth and arranged perfectly.
I am 65 and I have had several health issues since 2003, but thank God, I am still here kicking.
The segment about plenty of sleep spoke to me because I am not getting 7 to 9 hours, and I thank you for publishing help for me.
Write me anytime and keep up the fine work.
pbj Happy Dogs on May 04, 2019:
Thank you for the motavation to take care of my self.
Michael on May 02, 2019:
Can i just say how committed you are. Wow! A printed checklist.. Hopefully I can have this too sooner or later! Accomplishments and goals are so important to know the progress.
Jordan on May 02, 2019:
Thanks for the tips! It's always nice to remind ourselves of even some of the small things we all know like drink more water! And I have always found I almost double my productivity in a week by starting it with a list with work items, home items, excercise goals, and I always try to give myself a few easy tasks so I feel accomplished and motivated to keep crossing off items on the list!
Holly Bird on May 02, 2019:
What an inspiring post! Everything you need to get your health and wellness on track!!
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on April 29, 2019:
Yes! Anything that makes drinking wine ok!
Thuy on April 29, 2019:
I can totally get behind the wine tip ;p I love reading wellness tips, life is all about balance and happiness!
Lyosha Varezhkina on April 27, 2019:
it is a complete and absolutely proper list of things to do. I can say I do everything but I have to admit I love honey and eat it from time to time
Kaitlyn Morris on April 05, 2019:
Great suggestions. Sugar is my weakness for sure.
Erica (The Prepping Wife) on April 04, 2019:
Sleep and water consumption have been my biggest goals this week and staying consistent with both of them. I do pretty decent when it comes to eating healthy. But I need to start exercising more.
Ashlee on April 04, 2019:
It's so true! I have been drinking more water, at least 1.5 litres a day- huge for me lol, and have been moving away from siting for so long at my computer. I love the part about wine and veggies!
Lyosha on April 04, 2019:
I agree: to be healthy and happy you do need to work on it daily. work until becomes your nature.
Live Learn better on April 03, 2019:
Great tips here. Sleep schedule and no gadgets time off are my most precious things.
Ashley on April 03, 2019:
Great tips! I've been slowly but surely edging towards becoming plant-based as, according to research I've done, dairy and meat products are not good for us either and also contribute to preventable diseases.
clio on April 03, 2019:
Oh, so true! As an European, when I first came to the US I was actually surprised to notice the bigger portions at restaurants, the big glasses of drinks, and how little people in my neighborhood used to walk or ride their bikes in their daily lives. Yet, as you said, there are so many more ways in which we can adapt our routines to live healthier! Love all your suggestions :)
nominal nomad on April 03, 2019:
these are great tips!! i´ll print the checklist to help me with all that!
I personally noticed that drinking more water helped me in many ways!
Kippi on April 03, 2019:
I am motivated to drink more water, get up from this chair every hour and get my vitamin D after reading all this wonderful info. I am pinning this one so I can share it. Happy Spring, Kippi #kippiathome
jerry godinho on April 03, 2019:
excellent piece and you have made it clear that diabetes, heart issues, depression and autoimmune is due to our hectic lifestyle and processed food we are eating. thanks for this article and very impressed and will use your calendar.
The Sunny Side Lifestyle Co. on April 03, 2019:
Thank you for the wonderful reminders. I was thankful to see that I'm already doing many of your suggestions but will be consciously implementing the 2 hours of tech-free time.
Depsite Pain on April 03, 2019:
These are all really sensible, and fairly achievable suggestions. I do the water rants too lol. People think I'm crazy when I say water is my favourite drink.
Snehal on April 03, 2019:
One of my 2019 new year resolutions was healthy living. I think am doing quite well after going through your post.
Mayuri Patel on April 03, 2019:
Great tips, I need to avoid salty snacks, but trying for healthier options like roasted fox nut and puffed rice. I've yet to set a routine that I will keep. I've jotted a few many times and barely made to 2 weeks.
Subhashish Roy on April 02, 2019:
Your article gives the complete perspective of what wellness actually is. Is it just health or more? Great reading and some wonderful reminders for all readers like me.
twoguyswhoblog on April 02, 2019:
Well based on your article I'm doing pretty good. I need to ditch the screen and the TV before bed and watch my oreo intake and coffee (i already knew this) Luckily the only other thing I drink is water (and beer but a beer is mostly water so that's kind of a win right?) These are great ideas but I'll admit I'm scared to print out this spreadsheet but I know it's necessary.
Liz Westwood from UK on April 02, 2019:
There are loads of useful ideas in this article. I love the illustrations. I struggle with water. I definitely need to make more effort to drink it.
Nero Nguyen on April 02, 2019:
Great tips! I personally drink green tea every morning to get a mild caffeine boost and antioxidants. Health is very important!
Darin on April 01, 2019:
Hacicu Bogdan from Cluj-Napoca, Romania on April 01, 2019:
This article is so beautifully written and you've given some extremely practical tips. I really love that checklist you've given at the beggining. It is really helpful. Also like the fact that you've mentioned about sleep, since I've just written an article about it and I agree with everything you said there. Well done!
Giselle Oliveira from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada on April 01, 2019:
This is so good! Jam-packed with good information! I'm a huge fan of Meditation and Journaling and I'm a strong believer that self-care is a necessity in today's world, not a luxury. Awesome post!